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All Herriford Consulting services have an overarching objective: To increase individual and community capacities to lead change that taps into the unique gifts we bring to the world as human beings. Beginning with empathy, my approach guides us into the remaining domains of EQ, which when understood and applied, is transformational in all aspects of one’s life.

Recognizing, Managing, and Mitigating Unconscious Bias

Unconscious, or implicit bias, is a root cause of current perceptions and misperceptions about diversity, inclusion, and belonging. But unconscious bias is human and we often remain oblivious to how it influences our behavior and decisions about to certain social groups from a lifetime of exposure to cultural attitudes about age, gender, race, ethnicity, religion, social class, sexuality, disability status, and nationality. Although most of us strive to align our behavior with our intention, the inability to manage unconscious bias can unknowingly create barriers to careers and inclusion for others, especially for women, blacks, and Latinos.

Our unconscious bias training builds on the theories of emotional intelligence and focus applied in life and the workplace developed by Daniel Goleman. Practices for creating new habits of cognitive empathy are based on the work of Roman Krznaric. The skills and “ways of being” developed in this training are also foundational to effective leadership and that every member of an organization or community must be a leader to effectively achieve personal and organizational goals.  Therefore, the intent of this training is not only improving diversity, equity, and inclusion, but increasing organizational leadership capacity.

Mentoring for Inclusion and Belonging

Efforts and initiatives to improve retention and success of new employees, apprentices, and students from under-represented and often marginalized are not achieving the intended results. Too often, these individuals fail to persist due to the lack of an influencer who can help them navigate the personal and professional growth experiences associated with an unfamiliar environment, responsibilities, and expectations, and realization of the value they bring as their authenticity. The predominate reason for this failure is the absence of true mentorship and leadership that models a DEIB mindset.

The #1 reason people quit their jobs is the manager-employee relationship. Too many promising and talented employees can’t make the connection they need to persist.  Students drop or fail a class due to a similar breakdown between student and teacher. When that relationship is between individuals from diverse ethnicities, cultures, identities, and social economic situations, the problem is exacerbated due to the difficulties in making the caring, human connection necessary for mutual success.

Any manager, mentor, or teacher accepting the responsibility and commitment to support the professional and personal growth of another needs to understand how to make that connection. The intent of this training is to provide leaders or faculty the opportunity to

  • deepen their understanding of how they show up in the mentoring relationship
  • practice methods to build their cultural humility as the foundation for making open and authentic connections with different others
  • develop sensibilities to recognize another’s biases, strengths, and self-imposed limitations
  • build upon skills for having both encouraging and difficult conversations

This approach to leading and mentoring for inclusion and belonging is based upon applying emotional intelligence to recognize and counter unconscious bias and make trusted and authentic connections with diverse individuals.

Servant Leadership Coaching

For the first half of twenty years in management, which began when I was 26, I didn’t realize I was a servant leader. I just wanted the people that worked for me to grow and be successful in achieving their professional and personal goals. I was unaware of the leadership style until I became an MBA student 10 years later.  I learned that a servant leader prioritizes the growth, well-being, and development of their team members and the communities to which they belong. The concept was first formally articulated by Robert K. Greenleaf in his 1970 essay “The Servant as Leader.” 

The example and case we studied was Herb Kelleher, the co-founder and longtime CEO of Southwest Airlines. Kelleher

Kelleher believed that if you took care of employees first, they would, in turn, take care of customers — and happy customers would create a successful business.

He was famous for listening to frontline employees (pilots, flight attendants, baggage handlers) and involving them in decisions. Kelleher would sometimes load baggage onto planes himself, showing no job was beneath him. He prioritized employee development and fiercely defended their interests, creating one of the most loyal workforces in the airline industry.Southwest fostered a unique, fun, and connected culture under his leadership — often cited as a key to its long-term success.

The #1 characteristic of a servant leader is empathy, followed by, in order, listening, awareness, healing, persuasion, conceptualization, foresight, stewardship, commitment to the growth of people, and building community. I like starting with empathy because it requires the development and use of emotional intelligence, which is a journey that is unique to all of us. After setting goals, the MHS EQi 2.0 assessment sets the starting point and the conversation begins.

Build your organization’s leadership capacity and effectiveness through practices that build an inclusive, high-performing culture.